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Post by Jive Turkey on Mar 24, 2015 9:28:11 GMT -5
I was on another board where someone started a thread saying they thought their spouse was banging someone on the side. Someone else responded that they should to Surviving Infidelity to get tips on how to read deleted text messages and other covert operations. Sounded interesting. I went to the board to see how fucked up these people are. I can't stop reading the threads on this board. After spending a couple of weeks reading threads, there appears to be two types of people in this world.....those who cheated on their spouse and those who are about to cheat. First, I'll start by saying this board has 47,000 members. I have not gone through all of the forums but this board appears to be primarily in place for support. I have yet to see any trolling even in places where it's warranted. There are threads started by people whose spouse cheated on them multiple times but they refuse to leave. Threads like that are a trolls wet dream but there is never any trolling. There was one thread where a guy would wake up in the middle of the night and his wife would be gone. He caught her cheating a bunch of times with people he knew but refused to kick her out. This guy was some sort of professional weapons instructor. It tells you how soft a guy must be if your friends are fucking your wife even though they know you are a professional weapons handler. He kept posting about how he kept begging her to stay. It's amazing because it's men and women. Most of these people have their life story in their signature. Some of them have spouses who cheated multiple times over many years but they are still trying to work it out. Those people are hilarious because another one of those people will come to the board and they will sit there and berate the new person even though they are in the same situation. This board can be difficult to navigate because they all use acronyms that only they can understand. Once you figure out the code, this becomes much easier to navigate. I wish I could find some of the threads I read when I first found this board. There are so many new threads started on a daily basis, a thread is here today and gone tomorrow if the OP doesn't come back to update it. I'll post a couple of threads that came back that are opposites of each other. That's all I'll say. These are long threads. One thing I noticed after a while is that someone will post their story about suspecting their spouse is whore then a bunch of people will inject themselves into the person's thread. I've learned to get the OP's screen name then read only that person's posts as I scroll through the thread in order to get the updates. This is a thread posted by a complete and utter fuckin dunce. www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=555710&AP=1&HL=This guy is a ninja. www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=552588 This is a thread about how people found out. www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=554305
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Post by joeking1978 on Mar 24, 2015 10:08:07 GMT -5
Spaceghost is the man! Just read his post and his final update on page 35. There's no cuckolding going on in his life... He handled it like a boss.
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Post by mtdman on Apr 3, 2015 2:48:57 GMT -5
This is why I married a sexless woman. She has no desire to have sex with anyone, not just me. No worries about cheating.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 3, 2015 8:12:46 GMT -5
This is why I married a sexless woman. She has no desire to have sex with anyone, not just me. No worries about cheating. Good plan!
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Post by Pollux on Apr 3, 2015 9:06:47 GMT -5
This is why I married a sexless woman. She has no desire to have sex with anyone, not just me. No worries about cheating. Good plan! Seems a little boring but to each his own.
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Post by mtdman on Apr 3, 2015 9:41:17 GMT -5
Seems a little boring but to each his own. I'll take boring over drama any day.
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Post by Pollux on Apr 3, 2015 9:42:32 GMT -5
Seems a little boring but to each his own. I'll take boring over drama any day. There is such a thing as somebody who will bang you and nobody else. There's no drama in that.
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Post by mtdman on Apr 3, 2015 16:59:01 GMT -5
I'll take boring over drama any day. There is such a thing as somebody who will bang you and nobody else. There's no drama in that. That's what I've got now.
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Post by Pollux on Apr 3, 2015 17:12:22 GMT -5
There is such a thing as somebody who will bang you and nobody else. There's no drama in that. That's what I've got now. You said she doesn't want to bang anybody and you're sexless. That's not the same thing.
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Post by joeking1978 on Apr 4, 2015 8:51:30 GMT -5
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Post by Pollux on Apr 4, 2015 9:53:38 GMT -5
I think that's universal.
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Post by Jive Turkey on Apr 4, 2015 21:53:32 GMT -5
This is why I married a sexless woman. She has no desire to have sex with anyone, not just me. No worries about cheating. I figured when you said she wouldn't cook or clean, sex was off the table also. I didn't want to say anything though. The one thing I've learned from that board is no matter much sex occurs in a relationship, someone is always cheating.
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Post by Jive Turkey on Apr 4, 2015 21:59:48 GMT -5
This is why I married a sexless woman. She has no desire to have sex with anyone, not just me. No worries about cheating. Good plan! Years ago on Wired For Sex, they did a segment on how Japanese women are so sexless, they will actually allow you to keep a whore on retainer. They said it isn't unusual to pay a whore a $1,200/week stipend. It's part of their culture.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2015 6:22:47 GMT -5
Years ago on Wired For Sex, they did a segment on how Japanese women are so sexless, they will actually allow you to keep a whore on retainer. They said it isn't unusual to pay a whore a $1,200/week stipend. It's part of their culture. Rediculous. Good thing everyone learns about culture from tv. Makes the world a better place.
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Post by joeking1978 on Apr 5, 2015 7:44:16 GMT -5
As opposed to what? Going to Japan? Reading it in a book? Pulling someone who looks Japanese aside at the supermarket?
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Post by philly on Apr 5, 2015 7:58:04 GMT -5
In Bangkok the strippers wear numbers so you can order them for sex. Costs less than $100. We went to a 3 level strip club that had glass floors. Thailand is a crazy place, ladyboys everywhere. Wouldn't take the family there.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2015 9:18:48 GMT -5
As opposed to what? Going to Japan? Reading it in a book? Pulling someone who looks Japanese aside at the supermarket? Do you think it's really normal to have a side piece and spend 60k per year on it there? I know a lot of Japanese people and I don't think infidelity is any different there. I'm sure that was based on some subset of wealthy business men in Tokyo or something. Yea Joe, go ahead and come up with some other ignorant stereotyped based on subsets of the wealthy in NYC while your at it. Maybe just don't come up with dumb stereotypes to begin with, or believe them based on a random tv show. Opposed to that I guess. My only point was that's obviously not normal.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2015 9:47:13 GMT -5
And I'm not offended joe, but I can't help but respond when someone says something so rediculous about a big part of my life. I assume hand said that directly to me on purpose.
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Post by joeking1978 on Apr 5, 2015 11:15:51 GMT -5
As opposed to what? Going to Japan? Reading it in a book? Pulling someone who looks Japanese aside at the supermarket? Do you think it's really normal to have a side piece and spend 60k per year on it there? I know a lot of Japanese people and I don't think infidelity is any different there. I'm sure that was based on some subset of wealthy business men in Tokyo or something. Yea Joe, go ahead and come up with some other ignorant stereotyped based on subsets of the wealthy in NYC while your at it. Maybe just don't come up with dumb stereotypes to begin with, or believe them based on a random tv show. Opposed to that I guess. My only point was that's obviously not normal. You missed the point... Which is obviously due to you taking offense to a topic that is close to home. Of course their are subsets in any group who have unique behaviors to only their group. I don't think Hands h post above was generalizing at all. He specifically referenced ONE episode on Wired that focused on a group of Japanese... Not the population as a whole. Do you think Japanese watch Duck Dynasty or the Kardashians and think they represent all Americans?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2015 12:34:42 GMT -5
Do you think it's really normal to have a side piece and spend 60k per year on it there? I know a lot of Japanese people and I don't think infidelity is any different there. I'm sure that was based on some subset of wealthy business men in Tokyo or something. Yea Joe, go ahead and come up with some other ignorant stereotyped based on subsets of the wealthy in NYC while your at it. Maybe just don't come up with dumb stereotypes to begin with, or believe them based on a random tv show. Opposed to that I guess. My only point was that's obviously not normal. You missed the point... Which is obviously due to you taking offense to a topic that is close to home. Of course their are subsets in any group who have unique behaviors to only their group. I don't think Hands h post above was generalizing at all. He specifically referenced ONE episode on Wired that focused on a group of Japanese... Not the population as a whole. Do you think Japanese watch Duck Dynasty or the Kardashians and think they represent all Americans? I guess I didn't get his point then. Japanese ppl don't watch either of those shows.
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Post by Pollux on Apr 5, 2015 12:58:35 GMT -5
In Bangkok the strippers wear numbers so you can order them for sex. Costs less than $100. We went to a 3 level strip club that had glass floors. Thailand is a crazy place, ladyboys everywhere. Wouldn't take the family there. Find out the hard way?
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Post by mtdman on Apr 5, 2015 16:18:11 GMT -5
Everyone knows from watching the Sopranos that italian dudes keep goomars on the side to bang because their wives are sexless.
I have tried convincing my wife that having a sister wife for her would be a good thing so she wouldn't have to worry about putting out. She ain't buying it.
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Post by Pollux on Apr 5, 2015 16:23:36 GMT -5
Everyone knows from watching the Sopranos that italian dudes keep goomars on the side to bang because their wives are sexless. I have tried convincing my wife that having a sister wife for her would be a good thing so she wouldn't have to worry about putting out. She ain't buying it. I'm sure that was an interesting conversation,
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Post by mtdman on Apr 5, 2015 16:29:11 GMT -5
Everyone knows from watching the Sopranos that italian dudes keep goomars on the side to bang because their wives are sexless. I have tried convincing my wife that having a sister wife for her would be a good thing so she wouldn't have to worry about putting out. She ain't buying it. I'm sure that was an interesting conversation, I suggested she could do some laundry and cooking too to sweeten the pot. Just got a "no"
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Post by Jive Turkey on Apr 6, 2015 9:47:10 GMT -5
And I'm not offended joe, but I can't help but respond when someone says something so rediculous about a big part of my life. I assume hand said that directly to me on purpose. I don't know anything about Japanese culture other than what I've seen on TV. The post wasn't to be taken literally. It was just part of a segment of a show. I bet Michael Jordan's annual whore retainer was at least six figures. The one thing we can all agree on is the Japanese have the weirdest porn on the internet. I'm not saying all Japanese will allow an eel to be inserted into their ass but you don't see anyone else doing shit like that.
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